Showing posts with label motivation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label motivation. Show all posts

Sunday, 15 September 2013

90 things to do before I die

 
Following on from my previous blog post, I thought I would share my bucket list!


1) Snorkeling in the great barrier reef
2) See northern lights
3) Be in a flash mob
4) Dance in the rain
5) Visit less privileged people and do something to help them
6) Give flowers to a stranger
7) Roadtrip across America
8) Free hugs all day
9) Safari
10) Sleep under the stars
11) Make someones day
12) Stand on every continent in the world
13) Go somewhere far away by myself
14) Visit Greece
15) Swim with dolphins
16) Charity work
17) Learn to drive
18) Take my mum on holiday
19) Let people close to me know how much I love and appreciate them
20) Colour run
21) Paint fight
22) Sleep on the Beach
23) Add a lock to the lovers bridge in Paris
24) Visit the Carribean
25) Go waterskiing/ wake-boarding
26) Go surfing
27) Have a best friend
28) Go skiing
29) Conquer fear of heights
30) Whale watching
31) Spontaneous run for ages
32) Cuddle a koala
33) Cuddle a monkey
34) Give an inspiring speech in front of lots of people
35) Stand up for myself
36) Go skinny dipping
37) See an elephant in the wild
38) Take part in a protest I truly believe in
39) White water rafting
40) Visit New York
41) Go backpacking
42) Raise £1000 for charity
43) Save a life
44) Adopt an animal from a shelter
45) Eat with a stranger and pay for their meal
46) Outside movie
47) Swim under a waterfall
48) Volunteer work
49) Make a scrapbook
50) Have a job I enjoy
51) Take a dance lesson
52) Long bike ride
53) Build a huge sandcastle
54)  Have no regrets
55) Bake a really tall cake
56) 10 random acts of kindness
57) Canooeing
58) Drive a speedboat in a warm sea
59) Chalk art in the street
60) Swim in an infinity pool
61) See 7 wonders of the world
62) Be someones everything
63) Compliment a stranger
64) Go in a helicopter
65) Parasailing
66) Build a home for the poor
67) Watch the sunrise somewhere beautiful
68) Build a huge snowman
70) Take polaroid pictures
71) Spontaneous trip (just pack bags and leave)
72) Get married
73) Have a baby
74) Water zorbing
75) See how far I can get with no money in 24 hours, for charity
76) Kiss under miseltoe
77) Kiss underwater
78) Karaoke
79) Run the marathon
80) Buy a puppy
81) Buy my first car
82) Buy a house
83) Break a world record
84) Be on TV/ Radio
85) Go to a street party
86) Be remembered for something good
87) Have a garden party
88) Stay up all night talking
89) Swim in the dark
90) Visit Niagara falls
 
I'm sure I'll end up adding more, but for now I thought 90 was a good number to stop at.
 
 
 

Wednesday, 4 September 2013

Where to go next


Today I thought I would write about something slightly different. My last few posts have been beauty related, and although I love talking about different products, I think it is sometimes good to write down your thoughts and feelings, (which I wanted to do) instead of bottling them up, And I also want my blog to be a place where I can write about anything I feel like. I used to write things down on pieces of paper as a young child, and although I wasn't going to let anyone see them, I felt that just by writing them down, a small weight was lifted from my shoulders.
 
Like a lot of people my age, I have found myself stuck with what to do next. Having just completed my A-Levels I have so many things to decide on. I already knew that i didn't want to venture off to university like a lot of people I know, mainly because I have no idea what I would study. So i'm here trying to figure out my next step, whilst everyone around me seems to already know theirs.
Not so long ago i was so excited to leave college, as everyone says (the world is your oyster), and I was really looking forward to exploring the world, and just living life. However, just recently i have lost all enthusiasm. Getting a job, work experience, or an apprenticeship has proved difficult, and i feel completely lost with where to go next. The reason I wanted to write this post, was not only to try and get rid of some of the stress of working out what to do, but also to try and help some of the few people reading this that might be in the same position as i am. I think one thing that can often make people feel better, is for them to know that they are not the only one in that position, and other people feel the same way.
 
I have realised that there is so much more to life than finding a job that makes you 'rich'. I know that a lot of people's biggest goals are to become millionaires, but what would be the point in wasting a lot of your life constantly working to earn money that you don't have time to spend. I'm not saying that being 'well off' is a bad thing, but I would much rather spend my time being happy in a low payed job (that is enough to live off), than spending all my time being stressed and angry, with a lot of money. I decided that instead of looking at what jobs are best payed, and trying to go down that route, I would look at things I enjoy and go from there. I also decided to create a list of things I would love to do in my life time, because I don't want to be a person that looks back with regrets and says 'what if'.
I guess what I am trying to say is that life is so much more than big houses and nice cars, so don't worry if like me you're stuck for what to do now, because you'll realise what makes you happy, and that's what you should strive to be. For now though, live in the moment, and be thankful for what you have. Every situation teaches you something, like this one has for me, and I have learnt to focus on doing things I love to make me happy, rather than wasting time working out how to become 'successful'.
Happiness is success.